When you are young, slender and beautiful, the world is your playground. A sparkling smile, a flip of the hair and a batting of the eyelashes accomplishes far more than the average person would suspect.
It’s a catch situation: you know you’re gorgeous; and because you know it, you ooze confidence and charisma; and because you ooze all this charm, people notice you wherever you go; and because people pay attention to you all the time, you know you’re gorgeous.
Whether anyone will willingly admit it or not, if you’re beautiful, things seem to come easier. It therefore becomes quite natural to rely on your good looks to get your way. Unfortunately, that’s where the real danger lies! Forget the other jealous and insecure women who are not at all enchanted by your youth and beauty, it’s when your good looks start to wane with age that the real challenge is afoot.
Speaking from experience, I relied heavily on my good looks in my twenties. Tall, pretty face, slender body – I got used to the attention I attracted simply by being attractive. No wonder I went into crisis mode when I hit thirty!
The ageing process isn’t for sissies
For the vain woman (and yes, I hang my head in shame), it feels like a death sentence. Your attention is taken away by younger, prettier girls and alas, you find yourself in the shoes of the older, jealous woman that you pitied in your earlier years.
To quote Liz Smith, “One of the best parts of growing older? You can flirt all you like since you’ve become harmless”. It’s an appropriate quote, especially to me. Flirting in my younger years was my weapon of choice; now, flirting is not really something that I can get away with in too many situations. If I’ve learnt anything it’s that physical beauty is not permanent and it’s not ageless. Relying on good looks alone will only get you so far and no further.
Yes, I do still nostalgically dwell on my twenties at times, but with age has thankfully come a little more wisdom. It’s far better to be revered for your inner beauty, intelligence and strength of character, than simply as a pretty face that can be easily forgotten.
True beauty is timeless and that is something that can only come from within.
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Tagged: Ageing, Beauty, Confidence, flirt, Human physical appearance, Inner beauty, Liz Smith
I agree with you! It is far better to be revered for your inner beauty. Thanks for this post!
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Thanks Adam for your comments :)
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You’re very welcome!
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Congratulations! I have nominated you for the Liebster Blog Award…Keep up the good work! Details can be found here http://marciwise.com/2013/09/14/the-liebster-award/
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Thanks so much Marci – I am ever so pleased!
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