Tie him up – the kinky side of bondage

I have a dirty little secret; something that took me quite by surprise!  Why? Well, I’ve always been rather conservative – especially on the topic of sex. Until recently, I had never actually watched a porn movie, owned a sex toy or gone to a strip club.

Lately though, or maybe it’s just because the veil has been lifted from my eyes, but everyone seems to be focused rather singularly on this particular topic.  Sex is a buzzing topic in the blogosphere, and the sex industry is surging with re-newed gusto.

 Sex sells! Duh! Of course it does!

Just this past weekend, thousands of people – young and old – attended the annual Health, Sexuality & Lifestyle Expo, Sexpo, in Johannesburg. 

South Africans are stereotypically quite old-fashioned.  So it amuses me when, as soon as Sexpo opens its door, people seem to liberally and proudly embrace and parade their sexuality while wearing headbands with illuminated male genitalia and bondage ropes for added affect.

Every year Sexpo has catered to people’s cravings for sex fantasies and eroticism. Couples in their droves look for that perfect little item of entertainment to keep things interesting in the bedroom. But this year, something new sparked and caught fire at the Sexpo:  S&M and bondage.

English: rope bondage made and shot by french ...

Sex and bondage in the industry has always seemed to go hand-in-hand, so while it’s not anything new, this year’s exhibition mirrored the growing interest South Africans have in exploring and experiencing bondage.

Clearly fluffy pink handcuffs aren’t cutting it anymore!  Now metal hooks, chains, whips and leather masks are tickling people’s fancies.

Embracing the kinky side

Obviously, there is a fine line between keeping a relationship spicy in the sex department and crossing over to the darker side of perversion. 

Erotic illustration

In a committed relationship and marriage, we are meant to enjoy sex.  If a leather corset and studded hooker heels catches your man’s attention, then why not put on a show for him!  Likewise, if a woman wants to playfully tie her man up and use a feather or a soft cat o’ nine tails to drive him into a frenzy, then so be it.

I however draw the line at hanging from butcher-like hooks inserted in the skin and being whipped black and blue.  It just doesn’t sound like fun!

Dirty secrets

So what’s this dirty little secret I’ve alluded to? 

Let me put it this way:  the soft pink leather wrist cuffs and matching neck choker definitely caught my attention! ;)

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2 thoughts on “Tie him up – the kinky side of bondage

  1. the drunken cyclist October 1, 2012 at 14:58 Reply

    Taking a walk on the wild side?

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